Separation & Divorce Counseling: Katy Counseling for Men
Building Stonger Futures Together
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You feel STUCK! You may be in a relationship and you're not sure what direction to take. You've thought about separation or divorce but love your wife or partner and you think about how it may affect the kids.
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You've separated. You may feel conflicted as you enjoy parts of being independent. And you're not sure if reconciliation is the path to take or even if it's possible.
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Your wife has asked for a divorce. The hurt, frustration, and confusion you feel is interfering with your ability to function in everyday life.
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You've asked for a divorce. While you feel it's the right step, it's not an easy step. The stress, anxiety, uncertainty weigh heavy on you as you take your next steps.
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How to Know When Counseling for Men Can Help in a Divorce or Separation
There is no such thing a stress-free separation or divorce. If you have been in a relationship with a girlfriend, wife, or partner for any length of time, you have connected on emotional, intellectual, physical, and spiritual levels. To disconnect and detangle that relationship can be complex.
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Some of the challenges men experience in separating or in divorce situations include:
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Feeling of loneliness, isolation, and lack of support
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Judgment from others
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Feelings of guilt
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Loss of status
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Change in personal identity
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Increase in stress
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Increase in life pressures
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Financial strain and uncertainty
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Resentment and anger
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If you are experiencing any of the above, you don't need to go it alone. Yes, you are strong, smart, and capable enough to do so. And asking for help is a different kind of strength. Having a men's counselor to meet with can help. You will have someone who specializes in men's counseling to:
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Bounce thoughts and ideas off of
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Get an outside perspective on situations
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Be able to help as you make important, life changing decisions
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Help you to better manage, depression, anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks, etc.
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Who can help you walk this complicated path may make all the difference today an
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Let us help you during this complicated, stressful time to build a stronger future together.
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Counseling for Men Can When Going Through a Separation or Divorce
Often when going through a separation or divorce, it can feel very lonely and isolating. For many, it may be the first time going through a divorce or a formal separation. There will be decisions that will need to be made for the first time and that will affect the rest of your life.
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Having a counselor who specializes in men's counseling can provide an ally, guide, and support during a challenging time in your life. A counselor for men can help you think through these important decisions to help you make decisions that are best for your life situation.
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A men's counselor can also help challenge you in ways that can help you grow stronger through this period of time. They may be able to identify and point out areas where you may need some challenging. This can help you in making choices and decisions from a reasonable and rational place versus an emotional place.
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If you are experiencing a separation or divorce and are experiencing any of the above, it may be time to reach out to a men's counselor for support. It can be a difficult period in your life that can be made easier with support.
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What is Preventing You From Starting Counseling for Men?
It's not uncommon for many a man going through a separation or divorce to choose to go it alone. They may have support from their family and some friends. Some may not have support from family or friends.
Whether you have a lot of support or no support, it can feel lonely and isolating going through a separation or divorce. Your status changes, Your identity as a husband or boyfriend changes. Your role as a father changes. And regardless of the divorce being amicable, people look at you differently.
There are also a lot of important life decisions with long term ramifications that will need to be made during a divorce. The stress of these decisions and resulting outcomes can be heavy.
Having a counselor who specializes in men's counseling can help. This is not a path that you have to tread alone. You can have a seasoned, experienced, professional by your side walking this path with you.
Our counselors have walked this path with men before and may be able to be a guide for you on this journey. They may be able to spot and identify obstacles that you can avoid in making these important life decisions.
They can also help guide you through any emotional stress and challenges you may be experiencing. Having the emotional support will mean that these complex emotions will not stand in your way of your business, work, and other relationships.
Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy in Katy, Tx & Houston
Not all separations need to result in a divorce. And not all divorces need to carry through to its final conclusion and dissolution of the marriage. We have men's counselors who are also experienced couples therapists and marriage counselors.
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We have worked with couples who are seeking a separation or divorce due to infidelity or other serious violations of trust. It is not uncommon for couples to choose to work through this and remain together. And some couples later go on to talk about how their relationship has become stronger because they chose to do the work.
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Other couples seek a separation or divorce as they may have fallen out of love. They may have grown apart over the years and don't have things in common like they used to. And there are couples who have chosen to work through this and have come out the other side stronger.
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And sometimes marriage counseling of couples therapy is helpful for those couples who choose to pursue a divorce. Couples therapy and marriage counseling at this stage can help the couple work through emotions that may surface due to the divorce to help them end things on a positive and amicable note.
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If there are children, teenagers, or young adults who would be impacted because of the divorce, marriage counseling and couples therapy can help the couple learn to co-parent together. The one thing that all couples have in common in a divorce where there are children, teenagers, and/or young adults involved is they don't want to hurt the kids.
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Being able to co-parent together, unified in their parenting, is the surest way to minimize long term impacts of divorce. This can be challenging to do as there may be heighted emotions involved. This is where a men's counselor experienced in couples therapy and marriage counseling can help.
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And a counselor for men can help you in your decision process on just how to move forward whether to:
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Seek to reconcile and work things out
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Separate
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Or seek a divorce
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Let Us Be Your Guide on This Journey: Katy Counseling for Men in Katy, TX & Houston
This can be a challenging period of time in your life. Having a seasoned professional who specializes in men's counseling can help. The loneliness, isolation, depression, anxiety, anger, or other challenges do not have to affect your happiness and success in life. ​
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Our men's counselors can also help you walk the path as you make important decisions in this period of time. You will have a guide to point out obstacles and barriers and help you to overcome them.
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Our Katy, TX location of Katy Counseling for Men has therapist who can help. Our therapists are those who specialize in therapy for men.
To start your counseling journey, you can follow these three simple steps:
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Contact Katy Counseling for Men
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Meet with one of our men's counselors
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Take the first step in partnering with an experienced and seasoned guide
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Other Wellness Services Offered at Katy Counseling for Men:
Katy, TX & Houston
At our Katy, TX location of Katy Counseling for Men, in addition to separation or divorce counseling for men, we offer a variety of other counseling services to fit your unique needs.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART)
Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR)
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Trauma therapy
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PTSD treatment
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Counseling for anxiety
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Counseling for social anxiety
Board Certified Neurofeedback
Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy
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Peak performance (optimal academic brain performance)